This post is gonna be mad random because I'm just swamped these days as far as work and personal life.Maintaining a blog is harder than it seems.
*My oldest sister I love her with all my heart but the girl is a certified dodo brain.One time I had a really really old piece of shit car. I was getting a new car and I asked her to sell the old one for a measly $200. I could have got more but just wanted the car out of my life.Tell me why a couple weeks later I show up to get my snaps and she told me she only sold the car for $100
THIS GIRL CAN'T DO ANYTHING RIGHT!! I asked her why,
Big sis: well the girl didn't wanna pay the full price cause the windshield has a crack in it,and the passenger window doesn't roll down
me: (cutting her off) WHAT THE FUCK SHE WAS EXPECTING FOR $200 A ROLLS ROYCE?
BS: I felt bad so I gave it to her for $100
me: sigh.... so wheres the $100
BS: well what had happened was.....
Sigh.What else? oh yeah,for the most part I've stopped posting about my lil mama for now.There is a lot of stuff going on and it's not fair for either of us for me to constantly tell y'all bad things about her. She's a really great person and always hearing about how many obstacles are in my way because of her is starting to make some of my real friends not like her and that is kind of unfair cause she's really terrific and should get a fair shot. One of my friends told me I should end it because it doesn't seem like she's bringing anything to the table. They were kinda right but I can't dump her cause someone else said so, but the more I say what we're going through the more I make myself look like a chump. I don't wanna be one of those people who look stupid cause they always complain about something but never change it.I wish I could come on here and tell y'all about all kinds of great dates we go on and we're planning trips to vegas and LA and fancy candlelight dinners and all that TI whatever you like kind of shit but I'd be lying.Long story short, I'm not living the kind of life I'd be living if I wasn't with her. I don't care , I know she's one in a million and I'm just gonna ride this shit out and see where we end up . But it's been my recent experience that not everybody sees that as a noble thing. Some of my peeps think I'm downright stupid.I kinda started this blog because there are so many things I can't say in my real life but alas even here I have to look at what kind of image I put out. I guess in all aspects she has to remain my little secret. As usual any input you have on this is encouraged.
*Saturday night was drinking night. our super came by the spot already drunk and invited us to come over and drink. I didnt have any and thank god i didn't. He got on the turntables and played I always feel like somebody's watching me over and over again. I wasn't even drunk and I moonwalked my ass off so imagine if I was.Then my super proceeds to tell us how last week he smashed out this old lady who lives around us
he even started reenacting it by doing the girl pushups, needless to say we broke the hell out. We watched a bootleg of righteous kill (movie was ehhhhh...). Super comes over and in his drunken foolishness pulls out a $50 and gives it to my neighbors to buy some more beers and stuff to bring back to him. Mannnnnn they grubbed their asses off with that money. I paid for my own food cause im not grimey like that, but they are. They bought mad smirnoffs from the store and we finished watching the movie buzzed out of this world. Not so much me, I only had one cause they kept begging me. The next morning I passed by their door on the way to the store and the super was banging on the door like fred flintstone and shit
Super: Hey yall what the fuck happened to yall last night? and wheres my change? I gave y'all $50. I know y'all in there!!!!!
I just kept walking and laughed to myself, man these are some crazy people.So....what's new with you?
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
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What up Nodays, I know you been busy and all so I ain't fena tear you a new one on yo' own site even though you gladly do so to me *snarl*....anyway, I respect you not wantin' to trash your girl. I think folks are jus' tryin' to give you sound advice but if you ain't asked for it then who cares what people think, right?
Keep doin' you and I hope soon that you'll be able to come back to release some tension on the blog, 'cause despite the dysfunction, your shit is funny as hell.
Sane
what's new????
ALOT for one you ain't never around no mo so i feel lost as hell, i have no one to crack my momma jokes on ummmm what else oh, my kids need to get a job or move out, but iono how that's gon work out seeing as they minors and i am pretty much stuck with em till they 18 love em to DEF THO other than t hat, nothing new, hope everything works out tho nodays seriously i do, even tho you annoy me like a bad rash, you still cool ppls.....lmao and stop fucking with that nutty ass super of yalls....
you have to do what's best for you. obviously you know your situation better than any of your friends or us bloggers and you love your girl. i'll miss the stories though :(
I don't wanna be one of those people who look stupid cause they always complain about something but never change it.<--that shit sounds like me but ill leave it at that
on thug misses-u gotta do what u feel is right for u. if she ya shining start then just chill and let her shine. people outside of the relationship gon always have advice on what u should do but u gotta remember they on the outside lookin in and being in is a whole new fuckin place, besides they only know what u tell them and everyone only somplains about what goes wrong. when shit is going right or even ok, we tend to keep our mouth shut and roll wit so we dont fuck up the good times
ya fuckin drinkin parties wit ya super always be on some other shit, wait are these the same 2 niggas who was playin in the shower?
About your girl.... people need to vent. And usually when they talk to their friends and family about their significant others it's venting. Now if you went around your boy talking about all the great stuff they would probably 1 tease you to death and 2 get sick of you. Vegas and fancy dinners are nice but they aren't everything. The most romantic time me and my husband have had was when we were dating, went to the mall, went to chick-fil-A and then said lets take it home. We got in the bed ate our food and slept and made love all day. there is no doubt you love her and I have no doubt she loves you. We are grownups now and have to think about our forevers. And if your forever looks good to you who cares what your boys think. They aren't gonna marry you...
Sounds like you gotta lotta soul searching to do. Most times, folk can't talk you out of doing what you want to do even when you know they're right. Maybe this is your case. Maybe those other folks are just being haters. Maybe this is just a rough time in Lil Mama's life and she can't reciprocate your kindness right now. Will she ever reciprocate?
One thing I know, relationships are HARD work, whether or not you find someone who seems perfect for you.
Hay! Now, I'm still a little salty that you said that my heartfelt post was like talking to your LM (where is this going he thought to himself). No totally kidding that shit actually made me laugh.
As for encouragement. Sorry I don't have any. Only thing I'll say is this. I agree, you shouldn't talk the bad things in your relationship if you aren't doing anything to change it. Cause as you can see, that'll just make people hate your S.O and quite frankly, many times your need support from others to keep things going.
That said. You know who else keeps things quiet? People who get abused. They make pretend shit is sweet cause they think they can change things.
Don't let your life turn into the males version of Lifetime.
**wonders if that advice was sappy & girly enough**
Yep.
ohhh. And I feel like if I lived next door to your super, I never would have bought this house. :-/
Sane I'm gonna be nice to you for a change.... Until the new Beyonce comes out then its war again
Chrissy that's the most sideways compliment I ever got.when me and your mama go bench pressing later I'ma tell her
Angelina jolie-the stories were about to be depressing so I did you a favor
Chay-yes that's those two fools.they told me they comfortable enough to do stuff like that.don't even get me started on that
Diana -thanks for the great advice as usual.that's the kind of life I want.I'm a simple guy but it seems like everyday there is something else with this girl
N0days.. N0days.. well I for one appreciate you sensitivity to your girl's plight. It's not for your friends or anyone else to judge you on how your relationship is going. To be truthfully honest.. I'm the male N0days in my relationship and I know how my b/f feels about me being the bread winner. I don't ever bring up the subject and treat him with the same respect I would a man who was bringing home the whole pig (eff bacon) So I totally understand how you feel. It's not easy putting someone else before your own needs (i.e. venting/blogging vs relationships) but I think you've made the right choice.
Now.. this here super you got.. oh man he's a character.. I'm going to need him to unplug that damn turntable before I confiscate his Rockwell 45 LP! And good to hear you learned your lesson about the Devil's Nectar and stopped trying to pretend you're a pro at this.. now you can see how funny people are off the L.I.Q.
Keep us up to speed with the rest of your life though.. you've got a funny bone at this thang mayne!
Your super and those other guys are crazy...
About your woman, do you!!if you willing to stick it out and fight then thats your perogative,
I understand what you mean about looking like you are whining and putting someone you care about in a bad light b/c of your venting but we are only human..its natural to want to talk out the bad situations....if you think she is worth the trouble, then your friends are just gonna have to get used to her being around
I am trying to get rid of a car and its harder than I thought it would be.
I am glad you and the misses are doing good now! :)
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