I talked to the youngest of my sisters about my cousin in foreclosure to see if she would chip in some money with me and she said shes close to foreclosure too :( sigh.... times are really tough for everyone i swear.she said they raised her mortgage a few hundred and shes BARELY keeping her head above water
why must there always be so much drama in the LBC? she told me how she had took her daughter to get a jump on school shopping and she was being a little cunt cause my sister wouldnt buy her the expensive bookbag she wanted. when we were coming up i had to wear the same bookbag until it split and then ma dukes with her cheap ass would just tell me to go get her needle and thread and sew that fake jansport back up.my sister said i was ballin cause she didnt even get a bookbag from mom ,she carried her books to school in a plastic bag (DONT LAUGH AT MY SISTER!!!!!) and just 1 generation later my niece is gettin all french saying she needs a special brand of bookbag before she can even leave the house.kids just dont understand.
we talked about my middle sister.the one whos married to Ginuwine (YEAH YEAH YEEEEAAAHHHH!!!!)
ok not the real Ginuwine but he is one of those stallionaire pretty boys with pressed baby hair sideburns.ill save him for another post.but anyway he has my sister DICKnotized and she gives him whatever he wants.come to find out theyre doing bad too cause he talked her into cosigning some expensive ass car for him so he can front like hes big time. smh.thats why i hate him and thats why theyll hate my girl.because if it wasnt for him she would have gone so far in life.its hard to run when you gotta drag some dead weight with you.but thats her business. i learned the hard way not to get involved in other peoples business.
so no one can really help my cousin from getting kicked out on the street.it sucks cause she got 3 kids and no income.but i swear yall shes the sweetest girl youll ever wanna meet.SWEET AS SHE WANNA BE.but she makes bad decisions
MAJOR BAD DECISION #1 Three kids by a married man.sigh.....i know
MAJOR BAD DECISION #2 quit her job to start her own business.this girl got her degree and was making MAD money but shes one of those people who you cant talk out of anything
MAJOR BAD DECISION #3 i know you saying (Chrissy) why she dont fuck her way out of her problem? she has a boyfriend (thats a whoooolleee other post, make that 2 posts at least) and he lives with her and hasnt worked in at least 2 years. theres a lot of dicknotizing going around (damn i must be wack then).she said if she gets kicked out he cant come with her (thats her idea of putting her foot down).
so long story short shes screwed.i hate to think of her and my babies out there on the street but i have my real babies now to feed and i have my hands full with that.my problem is i have a superman complex and i want to save everybody and when i cant it kills me
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
AFTER YOU'VE DONE ALL YOU CAN,YOU JUST STAND
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Take the S off your chest. I know how you feel, but some people have to go through their bad decisions to learn how not to make more. Sounds like your cousins got a good head on her shoulders and got sidetracked (ie dickwhacked). I've had to decide to say no even when I could say yes because we all have to be responsible to our bad decisons. Tough love
However even though you know your decision not help in the long run will be far more benefical than the short term solution, it doesn't make it any easier or feel any better.
-OG
first off ima kick ya ass for that top picture. that shit had me rollin. secondly i feel how u dont wanna see ya family doin bad but you gotta look out for you first. You cant be responsible for other people bad decisions. I have a friend who moved in w/ friends after i told her not too then they dont have water so she moves out wit no place to go now she lookin at me wit da hope of sympathy in her eyes and I had to tell her, because we are friends I wont leave you completely on the street but im not gonna keep sleepin in the bed wit my son so u can sleep on his spongebob sheets. I told her she can stay her 2 nites a week tops. just enough to shower. Shit this the same broad i had to bail outta jail, I cant keep bein ya savior. people have to learn to live with the consequences that come with the decisions they make
wow 3, not 1, not 2, 3 oooh i feel bad for both her & the wife =/ tsk tsk.
i dont blame that kid, she's watching tv, sweet 16, real housewives, balwin hills, tsk tsk they all want good stuff, they dont really get it.
Co-sign @ Cherish on that top picture! lol!!!! & the Ginuwine thing too, No Days,
Damn, bruh, it just ain't gon' get no better hunh? I feel you on that whole bookbag back in the day, lol!! You grew up REAL. Nothin' was sugar coated and Ma Dukes didn't play. Is this sister who couldn't help the one who knocked you out and made you kick a hole in the door???
That's messed up. Life can be a bitch on her period at times, but in the end, everything happens for a reason (that won't be known until later in life).
About being dicknotized, I don't think there is any dick that good in the world for me to do certain things, and I've had some good good. I always say, dick won't pay my bills.
I'm lovin these pics of GinuFine but anywho...I kno what its like to want to help othrs..but first and foremost u have to think of urself and ur household. Evn tho its tough...the best thing u can do is pray for them.
Nodays.. if you don't stop posting them Ginuwine pics.. ROFL @ "pressed baby hair sideburns" I'm sorry but there ain't no dick created strong and wide enough to make me cosign for a nigga for NUTIN! I'm a firm believer that if you ain't adding to the pot.. you're taking away and I don't bust my ass to pay for somebody else's (man)child that don't have sense enough to pay for themselves. This will be a very good lesson learned once your cousin and sister comes out the other side of this valley.
OG-as usual sage advice
GLO- i must be cause nobody buys me shit
hey lovely
chay-you be bailin people out? (adds number to speed dial)
chell- yeah girl 3
sane- yeah thats her
bcu-wish she thought like you.i wish i thought like you too
soulstress- ginufine? girl stop this aint 98 lol
raider wife- you need to see this cat.he probably dont think ginuwine has anything on him
yeah i was jus like ur niece like 6 years ago when i just started highs chool.. I always wanted tha flyest gear and tha newest jeans, earrings, weaves (LOL), etc.. I am an only child by my mom, but it was still tough. I started feelin abd for her so at 15 I got a job. She was so happy, not only cuz I had a job, but I could break her off some dough as well LOL..I never minded though, cuz she's one of tha funkiest, coolest moms ever......
and can i plz rofl AND lmao @ ur sister havin to carry her books in a plastic bag!!! what if tha plastic bag broke on tha way to school LOL
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