LESSON LEARNED

One time my sisters ex came into town while i was living with her. She agreed to let him sleep on the couch while he was in town for the weekend. He said yeah but figured hed end up in her bed anyway. I wake up to them arguing because hes climbed into her bed and wants sex and shes saying she didnt agree to that. This went on forever and i just ignored it and tried to go back to sleep.after a while my sister starts crying and tells him that she wants him out and she wish she were a man so she could fight him and throw him out.now the kind of person i am wont let me not get involved at this point.this is my sister now and i cant let some dude pick on her especially while im right there.i go in the room and yeah i was a litlle nervous cause this was a big dude and there was a good chance i wouldnt win that fight but that was nothing compared to the pain id feel for not defending my sister cause i was scared. i tell dude to get out.he tells me to mind my business and that when his sister and her man fight he just minds his business.i told him this was past an argument and he needed to kick rocks or get ready to fight me cause nothing else needed to be said.

Then i got the knockout punch.no the dude didnt touch me.my sister runs up the stairs and cusses my motherfucking ass out for getting in her business and she can take care of herself. my jaw hit the ground yall.ive never been so shocked in my life.i jumped in to defend this girl and she turned on me.woooooooooooowwwwwwww.i was so upset i went in my room and slammed the door.i was still upset so i gave the door a kick.i dont know what material the door was made out of but it EXPLODED .i didnt expect that but fuck it i had other things on my mind.i thought family was supposed to stick together no matter what.how she could defend this dude and get on me when i was right and he was wrong?

the dude comes to my room and he reaches in through the hole i just created in my door and unlocks the door an comes in and apologizes.i wanted to tell him fuck you but what would have been the point of that? my sister already chose her side so whats the point of me continuing to beef with him? i didnt accept his apology but i didnt fight him either.i was so frustrated that day for so many reasons.mainly cause my sister betrayed me and secondly if i could have moved out i would have done so right away.i felt so helpless man.i had to keep living there even though i didnt want to,i told myself then i never wanted to be so bad off financially that i couldnt do what i wanted with my life.i guess thats why i get so frustrated with having to take care of somebody financially to the point i cant really do what i want for myself.it goes against everything i promised to myself years ago.to make things worse my sister gives the dude a ride to go stay somewhere else (she should have threw his shit out on the curb and told him to call a cab Beyonce style).when she gets home and comes to my room and looks at the door and asks me what happened to her door.i scream on her that she knows what happened.she tells me that i better come up with some way to fix it.i was soooooooooooo angry about that.i love my sister but to this day we still arent as close as we used to be before that day.she showed her true colors that day.i learned a valuable lesson though : dont get too involved in somebodys personal affairs.thats why its called personal affairs.

you may say im fucked up but if im walking down the street and see some dude shaking the shit out of his lady,thats not my business.a security guard i knew tried to break up a domestic dispute one time and the husband and the wife tag teamed his ass like the Legion of Doom used to do.Ive seen dudes beat up their women,cheat on them and those women take them back,shit some of them dont even leave in the first place.