I gotta admit a little bit i was sick of rap/but despite that the boy is back
Jay-Z - Kingdom come
I don't know why I haven't been posting but I just couldn't be bothered. Sorry. Excuse me if I told you this already but this dude at my job got fired a while back. We found out that a few weeks later that the stress of not working gave him a diabetes attack or something. Crazy , huh? Anyway there is this other guy they are about to fire tomorrow and I think I might stay home for that one cause he is cuckoo cuckoo cuckoo. Long story short, they keep avoiding telling him he sucks and keep trying to snowball him. They tried to help him out and set him up with an interview at another branch and he said he's not interested. IF YOUR BOSS TELLS YOU TO GO ON AN INTERVIEW FOR ANOTHER JOB SHOULDN'T YOU REALIZE THEY TRYING TO FIRE YOU?
This guy really thinks in his mind that he is one of the better employees there because everyone is afraid to tell him the truth.
1. because despite his work performance he really is a nice guy and is always trying to bring everyone breakfast and etc..
2. he is really into guns and him and his italian buddies have like a little gun club and go hunting and to shooting ranges etc
I normally take no days off but tomorrow might have to be one of them. This economy is no joke . A job IS worth killing over cause it will be a looooong time before he finds another one.
My lil mama and I are planning a lovers weekend where she put the kids at her mamas and we gonna go on a real date like normal people. I can't wait, we hardly ever see each other and never get to just relax and eat good food and laugh at movies and all that. We gonna do just a little bit of christmas shopping because she is working again and we might be able to buy the kids some little cheap stuff. So if y'all dont hear from me for a while you know im cupcaked up somewhere up under her.
One of my cousins has a crazy baby daddy. They had a really big phone argument and he came over in the night and bust all her car windows and slashed her tires . The stupid idiot forgot my cousin told him several times there is a girl a few doors over who got the same kind of car as her
He bust the wrong windows. Foolie Magoolie. The next morning my cousin come out and sees the girl outside crying cause her shit is all tore up and don't know why, it was so awkward but she didn't say shit. You wouldn't have either.
This dude at work told me he was having an intimate conversation with his sister........yeah thats what i said too. He's getting a dictionary for christmas.
Me and the dude who sits next to me at work wore the exact same shirt to work today. We got so many gay/chuck and larry/gay marriage/life partner jokes that at 9 I put my hot ass sweater back on and sweated my ass off. That shirts getting burned.
My aunt is in the hospital and it looks pretty bad. My sister said if anything were to happen its up to us kids to put our money together and take care of the arrangements. Auntie has no life insurance. I almost told her I have no savings cause I gotta take care of my lil mama . I stopped myself cause that explanation would have just opened up another can of worms.
Big sis: So you can't even help us bury our tee tee cause you giving some little ghetto hoochie with 9 kids alll your money? YOUR FAMILY COMES FIRST!!!
If I tell my lil mama shes on her own cause I gotta save up in case something bad happens
Lil mama: You need to tell your sister Im about to be your wife and you gotta take care of home first. Your auntie kids need to come up with something. Im not about to let my kids not have food to eat cause they aint taking care of their mama like they should, thats not your responsibility. If it was your mama I'd understand but your auntie got 2 grown kids and the lord will provide them with something.
Poor me, I'm screwed no matter what I do. So....what do you think I should do?
Thursday, November 13, 2008
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There has to be a compromise. I mean really my first question is where are the kids child support and its not your responsibility to take care of them. However you did get with her and I'm sure getting with her meant taking care of her.
I think you should talk to your LM and see if you two can work out something to contribute, if you guys are getting married that's her aunt too.
I know how you feel its a rock and a hard place, but do what YOU feel is right then you will be fine.
I treat my man's fam like fam so for me I would be trying to figure out to give a little something even if I didn't like the person.
I think you should stay home the day after tomorrow or maybe two days thos kinda of people often simmer before they go postal.
-OG
First, I hope your aunt get's better.
And second, the fluck! I see where your girl is coming from and all but they are HER KIDS!!!She had them and she needs to take care of them.Funerals are costly and all family members should chip in to help. That's just my view though.
hilarious.
wow i am a little stumped here because your sister and thug misses are both right. I agree wit og tho. You can contribute something, it may not be as much as big sis wants, or it may be more than thug misses is tryna give but at least your trying.
I agree with Cherish. Your little mama should be a little more understanding in this situation. Family is family. I know when my brother and father died neither one had any life insurance and if it wasn't for the WHOLE FAMILY pitching in they would not have gotten buried. I didn't have much to give either but my family is not close but we got it done.
i agree with Cherish. it's the best you can do.
OH.. MY.. DAMN.. why it take me all this time to find where to post ish?? Lawd I don't like this new layout.. I'm like so everybody can post cept me riiiight???
*officially putting the blunt down*
Now on to you and your Auntie/Lil Mama situation.. I'm sorry, but Lil Mama is right. If Auntie has grown kids - then it is their responsibility to take care of their own mama.. that's like asking them to help you bury your mama.. they wouldn't expect you to do it so move on with that bs...
Although I'm sorry to hear your aunt isn't doing well. I'll keep her in my prayers.
*DEAD* @ the baby daddy bussin the wrong windows!!
I hope you and your sis's convo will be moot because everything will be ok with your aunt, but Honestly, I say you chip in for that funeral. First, because they are expensive...would you not want someone to do the same?
I think it's odd that your lil mama would take issue with you extending financial assistance to a family member since...you've been financially assisting her and the children.
I don't know...it doesn't sit well with me (not that it has to).
I love your blog! lol
ok you need to find out when they are going to fire ole dude. He will be back with a gun.
LMAO @ babby daddy fuking up the wrong car. lol I wouldn't have said shit either. Would been hugging her saying "it's gon be okay"
you're damned if you do and damned if you don't when it comes to auntie and wifey.
I've been married for 8yrs. If we have it to give when family situations come up we do. if not we say no and keep it moving.
hilarious about the car...now thats classic...sucks but classic.
I have learned that your wife is your new family so you will need to do the "needful"....but either way its a tough spot to be in.
I dont blame you from staying away from the office...homies are crazy specially nowadays
Dallas Black
www.thirtyhood.com
u seem really smitten...hmmm
Anyhow... just as your "lil mama" is your responsibilty, I think so is your own aunt.
Sure she has kids, but that is YOUR FAMILY and that's YOUR AUNT. Of course her own kids have to do something, but u should contribute as well, no matter what your woman says. I can't imagine anything happening to any of my aunts -I have 8 of them on my mom's side- and not doing anything to help out even if I didn't have it like that.
Good luck with explaining this to your girl. I mean it shouldn't even be an issue with her.
I think you should take Tuesday off and not Monday. Cause if homie has guns he's gonna go home and plan his attack for TUESDAY. The day you'd be back.
Lil Mama has got to compromise on the funeral. Like OG said that's gonna be her auntie too.
Chip in just a little bit for the funeral... ya'll better try and split that shit 10 ways cause everybody need to hold their own with respect to your aunt. You do have your girl and kids, but your aunt and nem are family too so you need to find the happy median.
Hi!! Love your blog.
Losing a job is serious bout right now and if homeboy really think he is the business at work you just might want to take the damn week off.
Good for you and Lil Mama you have to keep it funky and fresh without the kids to keep the relationship brand new.
O.M.G too damn funny at dude busting the wrong car up.
I hope your aunt get better. Now, if she does pass on (sound like my mother) and you have the means and WANT to contribute then you should. If you don't want to then don't. I wouldn't tell my sister Lil Ma said.....
As far as Lil Mama is concerned she should support you either way, especially if you all are talking marriage.
NoDaysOff deserves happiness. You keep Lil Mama happy, she will keep you happy. You keep Big Sis, and Teetee's kids happy, they will keep digging in your pockets.
Man I feel you on that not being there when they fire ol' boy. I remember at one of my old jobs. It was this quiet dude there and he would always be snappin on the customers but no one ever wanted to tell him to calm down. But it came time to fire him I was on some I'm not gone be here when that happen he definitely liable to come back and shoot the place up.
But as for your situation. Man I can see where both coming from. But if you got it you gotta contribute something. Maybe not everything you got but it's fam so put something up and say that's all you got. They don't have to know your finances like that.
Wowzers Nodays....drama STAYS in your neck of the woods. I don't know, homie. Yo' auntie got TWO grown kids??? Nigga please! I wouldn't be scrimpin' for NOTHIN'...not unless that woman raised me in place of my own birth mother. Sorry, but times are tough.
Your co-worker sounds nuts. He probably will come shoot up the place with his crews. Yeah, you're better off stayin' home that day.
OG- she JUST started working again and we are just now getting caught back up on bills
Bammy-thanks for the well wishes
MEX-whats up bruh?
Chay- yeah man I might have to do something like that.either way someone loses and I never win
misschris- things are just really tight right now because ive been the only one working and we have NOT A DIME in savings left
MP-yeah cherish is smart,thats my dawg
wifee- I wish i could just skip out on them soo bad but I ate at their table every night. I really don't know what to do.
Jaded- we really dont have it to give right now but i feel so guilty about putting a girl over my family.on the other hand she's about to be my wife, sighhhh
Trice- damned either way sounds right about now
Dallas- yeah it sucks no matter what I do
AM- I see where both sides are coming from. I have to rob peter to pay paul
Diana- thanks for the tip. I might have to take the whole week off
GLO- good advice as usual
Knitrix - I havent left your blog yet!! I am catching up on you & your crazy kids cutting their own hair
Hustla- did you get that off a fortune cookie? lol.good advice, im sure my lil mama would approve
Brother - yeah I REALLY have a bad feeling about dude. this is how some lawyer movies start.lol
Sane- whaddup homie? yeah her kids are grown and they might actually be doing worse than I am if you can believe that
I hope ur aunt gets better.
I think evn tho u got lil mama and dem to look aftr...u shuld try to chip in for the funeral.
And i really gotta stop readin ur blog @ work b4 u get MY a$$ fired;)
Hey Brudda!!!! I can't officially "log in" from work so i have to post as anon:( hmpf.
LMAo@ "I bust the windows out cha caaaaaaaaaaaaaar"
ho.shyt.
ummmmm tell thug misses that IF ur ppl need help, u helpin 'em...see her azz...smh so much to say Nod, so much to say.....
I uhope y'all enjoy ur time together...
this hyt right here:
"This dude at work told me he was having an intimate conversation with his sister........yeah thats what i said too. He's getting a dictionary for christmas."
made me LOL
k@Li
LOL at ur cousin not saying anything to her neighbor!!! Sad for the neighbor but omg...that was so funny the way you said it. *smh* lol
And lol at the guy at your job. You are too funny! First time visiting your blog, I will be back :)
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