We were raised in a STRICT christian household.church every sunday morning and night and wednesday night during the summer revival.it was so deep we werent even allowed to watch tv on sunday morning cause we had to get in the spirit.couldnt we wait to get in the spirit until after Fat Albert? anyway thats just to show you how it was in our house. My middle sister out of 3 got pregnant when she was like 18. SCANDALOUS!!!!!.
**break**. Remember in the jacksons movie when Tito got in trouble for hollering at girls instead of getting in the car? yeah like that
In our house that was like getting caught getting your dick sucked in the middle of the aisle easter sunday.it was that bad.my mom flipped out and threw my sister out of the house.by the way,yes she was pregnant for fake Ginuwines pony riding ass
my sister had to go stay with some friends cause Ginuwine was living with some friends or something.I think it was kinda crazy to throw her out the house while she was with child but i guess thats how hard dukes took it.if nothing else she always tried to make sure we had the chances she didnt have even if she had to beat it into us and my sister threw all that away (in moms eyes).so do you think she was right ? wrong? be honest. anyway after a while,mostly cause my aunts got into that ass, dukes made us go get my sister and bring her home .Dukes made her get an abortion. Funny how a woman supposedly so christian would condone an abortion for her teenage daughter.but i cant even call it cause honestly if i were in the same spot id do the same thing.honestly thats why a lot of the resentment and aggression i had toward my mom i let it go,because i realized i have the same values as she does.ill go to jail for child abuse before i let my kids run wild.i will whip some ass,ask all my nephews and nieces.i dont believe in going broke trying to make some little ungrateful motherfuckers happy and stylish.no sir.
Ma Beagle forbid my sister from seeing Ginuwine again so of course theyre still married today.My youngest sister of the 3 got pregnant when she was 18 too.now she chose to leave cause she was in love and couldnt nobody tell her nothing like jennifer hudsons fat ass.talmbout hes the greatest man shes ever known.she actually got kicked out by her boyfriend cause her lazy ass wouldnt cook or clean or do anything while he was at work all day.yes this sister.we all told her not to move out cause she didnt know the guy that well but she was "in love" and he was gonna be her baby daaaaaaaaaaaaaaddy.when he kicked her out she was too embarassed to come back home to listen to i told you so,so this girl slept in her car for a while.nobody knew anything till her boyfriend came asking for her.shes the most coldhearted bitch i know (love you pookie!!) but when she told me that story she broke down crying so i guess it must have been really crazy to be 18,pregnant,sleeping in your car cause you had nowhere else to go.
lil sis came home finally, and had a baby.yeah it was rough but we were all living at home at the time so we all pitched in and helped.now that i think about it that was one of the last times we were all ever in the same spot.now everyones got their own family,we all live far away,this one dont talk to that one,i dont talk to middle sis and Ginuwine....sometimes i think about those times when we could all be in the same room and not kill each other and i smile.it will never be like that again but the memory still makes me happy.its funny we refuse to talk to a certain sibling but we ask almost everyday how theyre doing and things like that.life is funny like that
But, sometimes, I still sit and reminisce
Then, think about the years I was raised, back in the days
Back in the days when I was young I'm not a kid anymore
But some days I sit and wish I was a kid again
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
PAPA DONT PREACH/BRENDA'S GOT A BABY
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the only thing i got out of the post is your sister and genuwine being married/together did you say that orwere you saying your sister liked dudes that looked like genuwine?......lol i'm sleepy!
he looks like ginuwine.bangs and all
damn thats crazy but thats usually how it is. me and my sisters grew up close and now we rarely see each other. every once in awhile i will call them and check on them but they never call me. me and my oldest were talking more often in the past month cuz she helped me get enrolled back in school but now that im in i dont talk to her any more.
then i have a brother and half sister. they have a different mom than me and my 2 sisters. notice how my brother i dont refer to as half but his sister i do(they have the same mom) well my brother loves me and my sisters and my family but his sister doesnt like us cuz she feels like we took her dad from her. i havent seen her in years and wouldnt recognize her if she walked past me on the street and if i did i would probably spit on that bitch. when i was younger she used to come around w/ her daughter but i havent seen her since her daughter was about 3 and i heard she's like 17 now. My half sister had the nerve to come in the bank i used to work at, to get a check cashed and not have the proper id. so the teller(who happens to be my friend) saw the last name on the check and was like are you related to a cherish, that whore gon say yeah i think thats my half sister. so the teller cashed the check on the strength of her being my family and then emailed me. I had to tell her I dont know that bitch, thats my dad's other daughter but i dont know shit about her so dont do her no damn favors cuz i dont her. niggas still dont understand why i have so much hate towards her.
Although I understand your mother's pain and anger, I don't think it was right to throw her out. I would have slapped her across the head a few times...maybe cussed her out...but not throw her out. She would have left on her own, but not after I said/done what I needed to do.
Hmm interesting points so far. As a mother of a 14 year old girl I've had to contemplate would I ever throw my child out of the house if she got pregnant and my first response is yeah.. but then she's my only child and I don't think I would honestly have the heart to do it. There would definitely be some foot to ass and cussing though!
I remember before I ever had my daughter I lived with my mom for a minute. I had my own car, job and was doing okay for a 19 yr old.. well my mom must be kin to Ma Dukes cause she wrote me a letter.. A FUCKING LETTER to tell me that every month my rent would increase by $100 until I got my ish and got out.. well good thing for me I had just placed a deposit down for my first apartment.. adios diabla!!
chay- lol at your sister cashing checks off the strength.i know if she had came up to you you would have asked for 4 forms of id and a thumbprint
chrissy- its more and more obvious everyday that your sister needs her ass beat.what an ass
beautiful- lol dukes can be hotheaded at times.ok all the time
raider wifee- damn mom sounds kinda harsh.you must have not been chipping in and eating all the pigs feet
Well I'm only 30 and my best friend is about to be a grandmother. And I'm not talking about my much older best friend. I'm talking about my 32 year old best friend. It makes me sad but I would never say kick her out. It isn't the baby's fault. I feel like we need to rally around her for the baby, not necessarily the daughter's sake. Cause if there's one thing I learned about being a mother is once you are a mother don't nobody give a shit about you. Until your on your death bed I guess. Then it's probably "Mama this" and "Mama that". So that is something her daughter will soon learn. It's all about the baby now. So any support would be on the strength of that baby.
And that abortion stuff is crazy. I'll be content what with God gives me but I would rather not have daughters...I swear i'll kill her the moment she opens her mouth sideways
daughters are complicated to raise cos u constantly worry about them getting pregnant. i don't think i'll throw my daughter out if she gets pregnant at that age but i'll sure teach her a lesson. that will be so messed up though
Dang Nodays, i feel you. I came from a family of 3 kids and I was the baby but it was an unspoken understandin' that no 'big bellin' was gon' be tolerated' in my folks' house. I don't think they woulda put me out into the cold -cold night but they woulda made me take care of the child 99% so that i could understand the seriousness of what i did.
i have a little boy now, and although it's impossible for him to come home pregnant in the future, i do dred him havin' his first wet dream, because then it will be possible to impregnate some little broad - God forbid, way too early in his life.
I don't wanna end up in a situation where i have to financially and emotionally pick up the slack of my child's mistake but at the end of the day, that grandchild is your bloodline - and you gotta look out for that - even thru clinched teeth and heavy cussin', lol - which, with me, there'd be a lot of "fuck this, and mutha fuckas' comin' outta my mouth....
HARD!
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