Agony agony agony!! I just found out my little 14 year old niece is a resident of hoochie town. :( 
.My biggest sis saw shes been acting funny and waited till she fell asleep and went into her bag and found her diary.all i can say is it was shocking.my niece is lil sis' only kid.after my big sis found out she told lil sis and when lil sis got home from work she took my niece into the garage with the diary and didnt let big sis come with them.big sis was pissed because if it wasnt for her lil sis' irresponsible ass wouldnt even know that there was anything going on. sigh....why must there always be so much drama in the LBC?
in a move which further pissed off big sis,lil sis takes my middle sister with her to get my niece checked out at the doctors.even though she didnt tell me i know my lil sis' reasoning is because big sis can be a bit judgemental on her parenting skills and in this case lil sis is 100% wrong but still feels upset and embarassed by big sis so she doesnt wanna be around her.
now heres the part that really got to me.lil sis made my big sis promise not to tell my nieces dad(who shes no longer with).why???? if he knew i guarantee hed squash that bullshit out.we wouldnt have to worry about my niece being too grown again.the only thing is when he finished breaking his foot off in my niece narrow ass hed hobble over to my sis and break his OTHER foot off in her ass for letting it happen and thats what shes afraid of. so what you think? i feel if you gonna be a parent you gotta do whats best for the kid, not yourself.you cant let this girl run around doing all kinds of craziness because you scared of getting screamed on for not being on the job.whats she gonna say if this girl gets pregnant and cant even finish high school,my bad?
but oh well i cant call it cause im not in her position.what you think?
Thursday, August 21, 2008
BLACK GIRL LOST
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I commend lil sis for doing what big sis shoulda been doing. At that age they have NO privacy. Doing all types of fuckery that that have no bidness doing. And yes somebody needs to call the daddy asap.
I'm with sexxy luv; sounds like that girl need a daddy to teach a lil something about boys!
Big Sis' heart was in the right place...
p.s. yes, roscoe's is awesome lol...thanks for stopping by my blog. hope you dont mind i add you to my links...cant wait to hear what happens with lil sis ^_^
i wanna read the diary lol
*sigh* to be 14 again
imma say this, i did alot of shit @ that age that i KNEW i had no bidness doing, my daddy was never around, step-dad gone and i really believe that if i had a man in my life @ that time, idda made different and possibly better choices, thank the Lord that my husband is a good daddy, and he is actually there for our daughter in the way he needs to be.....so ya sister i say she wrong for not letting the daddy know she need to be glad he the type of man whio actually cares.....most men don't lol
im wit sunshyne i need to see some of that diary
but im glad ya sis actually found it and read so at least now yall know whats goin on and can keep a tighter grip on her
as for tellin the dad i think if he is a big part ur neices life now then he deserves to know but if he is just one of those who looks on from the outside and just wants to critcize w/o takin part then i say fuck him
shit, i wanna read this diary!
but in all seriousness, while my dad provided for us so i will forever respect him, i musta been one of those girls who "just didn't get enough hugs" 'cause i definitely had daddy issues and it definitely translated into... uh... my "willingness to experiment" at around 14.
on the other hand, though, while this may not be lil sis reason for not tellin' daddy, i can see why she wouldn't: really, what man, any age, wants to find out his daughter is getting dicked up?
my daddy told me when i finish high school he'll pay for me to go on the pill but he wanted me to stop until that time (i was a sophomore at the time of this conversation)... did i stop? no. kids are kids and they are gonna do whatever the hell they want.
but lil sis know now, so if some shit go down, she can't play dumb: it's time to be proactive. big sis had the right idea: act on suspicions and knowledge and work with the kid cause while she may not stop, she needs to at least be safe.
I think daddy should know regardless. Becuase as a momma you have the responsibility to report MAJOR shit. And being hot int he ass is some major shit (insert experience story here).
How bout I'm lil sis and my big sis aint doing her J-O-B niether. I had to pop my niece a few times for runnin off at the mouth (her exact words @ the age of 2 was "Dats Bullshit" & the infamous "Ya'll hoes aint got nothin on me and my momma!")
Just remember the old saying...
It takes a village to raise a child. When you grow up in the south EVERYONE is lookin out at you so if you doing dirt you betta be 007 bout it.
Someone hand this man a belt for future reference.
I have 3 year old niece and I'm scared to death of coming across some ish like that when she is older. She already got an attitude problem at 3!
You know I couldn't comment on this post until after I did a little of my own snooping.. I too found my 14 yr old daughter acting a little strange when I discovered her diary in front of me.. she snatched it up quicker than Chris Brown at a Sweet 16 party.. so my suspicions grew.. then I read your blog.. then I went home and started the search. Well needless to say other than a few choice curse words and a kiss.. the girl is still a virgin. Even told the dude that she was not ready for all that foolishness (THANK SWEET MINTY ON THAT ONE) Thanks for placing the mustard seed Nodays!!
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