One time for the stepdaddies.
Even though little man was not my child i made him miiiiiiine
Man that shit aint easy dawg,not at all.Dating/marrying a woman with kids is tough.And im not talking about the quick hello to the kids as you go to the room to have fun with the mama.Im talking about REAL stepdaddies who help with the homework,who put groceries in the fridge and who put clothes on your back. I had a stepdad growing up and i thought he was the coolest cat ever,Tacky as all hell but he was cool. One time my mom got mad at him for coming home late and attacked him with a meat cleaver.He held up his briefcase and the meat cleaver got stuck in it ahahahahahahahahah. damn mom was you gonna kill him?
I got stepkids now and boy looka here.Me and my lil mama dont live together even though i pay bills over there. She says she dont wanna live with a man again cause when her baby daddy walked out it kinda confused the kids who wanted to know where he was.plus it would be odd to have another man show up to live again and then he leave too. So no inhouse pussy for n0days0ff till we jump the broom.People dont understand the sacrifices you make sometimes.Its one thing when the kids are yours then you have no choice but to take care of your obligations but its different when you choose to put yourself into that situation. Where you only had to worry about finding piece of bread to feed yourself you now have to worry about finding several pieces first before you can settle down to eat yours.
dont get it twisted i dont regret my choice cause were not married yet i can always leave.Its just theres a lot to it.Your people especially your homeboys dont always give you their full blessing,some even tell you to your damn face they think youre a fool. Look at Usher for instance, dude has all the money one man can want but he gets clowned so bad for getting with a woman with three kids so imagine what criticism a regular guy with his own blog gets.I honestly dont know what my mama will say when she finds out.i just know it wont be good.especially when she discovers lil mama cant have no more kids.shes gonna tell me im a damn fool for taking care of several of another mans kids and cant ever even have any of my own.well i guess i do know what shes gonna say after all.
so shoutout to all the cats playing bill cosby to someone elses kids and may they all turn out to be a shaquille oneal and bring you home a million bucks.
Monday, July 28, 2008
BIOLOGICAL DIDNT BOTHER
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You;'re standup guy! but what is SEVERAL? And why haven't you shared your "joy" with ya moms???
Are you really happy if you're keepin lil mama in the closet?
I'm having that same shit happy to me. I've been wit my nigga for over a year and have yet to meet his mom. I don't know how much she knows about me, but I have 2 boys that aren't his...and they call him Daddy.
But I commend you for being there for ya girl, but don't play the sideline game wit her family (her and the x# of kids). Especially if you're plans are not long term or may change if ya momz was to disapprove.
I agree...u sound like a stand up guy. Ultimately...its ur life..so if mama dont approve..u still gotta do whats rite in ur heart. And evn if ur grl cant have kids...adoption is always an option.
Hold on, she can't have anymore kids??? and yeah why u ain't told mama??? ooooooooooh, I'mma tell. how long have y'all been dating niggah...u ashamed of thug misses?
ahhahhahhahh lmmfao thug misses lawd that is what i am calling her from now on nodays when we talk bout her you know that right....
to answer everyone.she has 3 kids by 2 guys (DONT JUDGE HER!!!!) and she had her tubes tied cause thats enough for her plus other obvious reasons.i dont really give a damn if my mama approves or not but my girl wants to meet her and have a wedding and all that.
i can guarantee my people wont like her but its complicated.i might have to give it its own post.but long story short,a woman dont really have to be a provider a man does.when a man has to provide extra and the woman looks like a burden then people who care about you are gonna frown on that.
soulstress- looooolllll adoption.wow that was a good one.ive already got 3 of someone elses kids to take care of i dont need to adopt anymore.thanks for the suggestion though.me having kids is more of an issue that since im already providing for so many one might as well be mine.plus it makes me look like less of a sucka by not doing everything for somebody else and nothing for my own life.
chrissy and kali yall must like donkeykongs.we been dating going on 2 years but ive known her like 5.chrissy your husband already knows what the deal is.tell him and kali to put one in the air for the stepdaddies.
lmmfao DON'T JUDGE HER! why i can't stop lmmfao
cause you ignant.i think everyone is gonna think of our situation what I would think if it wasnt me
"lmmfao DON'T JUDGE HER! why i can't stop lmmfao"
LMAO, y i thought the same when i read it! Nod u can't get mad either cuz u be goin hard on my azz!!!!
ole apple head ass... nodays why i gotta be ignant, i was laughing cause you gon tell us not to judge her, like we gon do that from the jump, ain't nobody judging shit give us some credit shit was funny to me cause you come out the gate talking bout DON'T JUDGE HER.. we don't know thug misses on a personal level and i ain't gon talk shit to start with cause i give propers to all mommas who doing it and doing it alone, ain't like her ass all on Maury running off the stage boo-hooing cause she done tested the 72nd dude....
n0 I judge people, its what I do. However, something tells me since you have been with this chic for 2 years and willing to be stepdaddy to her 3 kids by 2 different daddies, that she has to be about something and she's just a good person. On the other hand, you do have to think about why this chic has 3 kids with 2 different men who clearly aren't handlin their business and got you playin Daddy. You really have to think about the men she had dealt with, her past relationships and how she ended up in the same position twice. Everyone deserves to start over with someone better but um, but do you really believe deep down that she is worth you making her past your future?
I'm also thinking that you may possibly be ashamed of her or something is clearly holding you back from telling your mother about her. It is really difficult to marry or be in a relationship with someone your mother doesn't like/approve of and how da hell you been with her for two years and your mama don't know her yet? When do you plan on making these introductions? Something tells me the answer to that is neva.
You also say that you can guarantee that your people won't like her....why is that? It's not a good sign when your best friends and people who know you best don't like the person you are dealin with. And why would you want to be with someone that your people don't approve of? Not that they are the end all be all and they shouldn't be the reason for the decisions you make BUT if it is a overall consensus that you can do better, it is something you need to consider.
And unless you really don't want your own kids (and have seriously thought about not planting your own seeds), you need to think about marrying someone who can no longer have children. She done had all of hers and you taking care of them. You are workin real hard to take care of four other people and it would be beyond wackadocious for you to give up on having your 'own' family just cuz you think you all in love right now.
Definitely some things that make you go hmmmmmmm, but um, good luck wit dat, n0.
thanks for the input F.U> i was gonna respond but i have to give your answer its own post
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