Me and old girl are about to get married sometime in the near future. She has 3 kids and I have none. On top of that she has her tubes tied so she cant even give me none of my own.All that is fine but why when i asked her to sign a prenup world war III broke out? she says its not right for her to have to start over again at 45 years old and have to move back to the projects cause i decided i dont want her no more.i said its not right for me to have to slave for years taking care of some other dudes kids and finally when thats over i have to give up everything i earned ON TOP of all that ive already done.why must there always be drama in the LBC?
Friday, July 11, 2008
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*taps out black n mild* Nah brudda i feel ya, i don't think ya wrong...and she did not reference the PJS..lol does she work because it sounds like u da breadwinner which is fine, but baby girl needs to have a back up...she shouldn't be depending on you..HOWEVER i would be offended if a nicca asked me for a prenup...only because if i'm gonna marry you, it's because i truly love you and never want to part ways...but it sounds like she on some more shyt..where u met her at? *takes sip of henn*
and i'mma add u to my blogroll...lol ya shyt finna be smellin like green,blacks, n henn..haha PARTY AT n0ssssssssssssssssssssss
shyt..where u met her at? *takes sip of henn*
see there you go lol.she works too but yeah i am the breadwinner.i met her at work but i finished school and she still works there.another reason i asked for the prenup is i know everyones gonna ask me that seeing im taking of another mans kids.i just dont want everyone picking at me saying that damn girl got that fool wide open.he playing bill cosby to all them kids and after he send them all to college she can just pack up half his shit and sit pretty.am i wrong for trying to save a little face?
nah, u ain't wrong, I applaud you for helping because i mean you knew what u were getting into but at the same time, SHE needs to make their dad help out...i'm really bothered by that comment she made about having to move to the PJs because you don't want her anymore...sounds fishy to me. Looks like she is lookin for a meal ticket...you ain't wrong. how old r u?
im 27.please dont fight her kali i know how you get down.no i dont think its a gold digging thing because truth be told im the brokest dude she ever been with.we met when we were working at the same job years ago.that was the first job she had in years cause her baby daddy was a d boy and she just was a stay at home mom but that life wasnt worth it she said.long story short if she was after money she wouldnt be with me shed be out in the streets.it comes more from experience of dudes getting money cant keep it in their pants and telling her if she dont like it she can step like her baby daddy did.
as far as the baby daddy thing he just came home from jail and got fired from the job he did get when he got out.she cant really put him on child support.sigh....there is always drama in the lbc
O wow, hell no you not wrong for asking for a pre-nup...love is a wonderful thing but you got to be smart about things. I want a pre-nup to protect my current assets and future assets and I love the shyt out of my boyfriend but whoever I decide to marry in the future is going to have to understand that...I don't think your wrong at all for protecting your self...
and by the way from your age and the responsibility you are about to take on, you seem like one good stand up dude...
thanks jweezy i feel appreciated i really do.i try telling old girl all the time that it aint everybody that would do what id do and she gives me the do you want a cookie look lol.
where u met her at? *takes sip of henn*
kali why am i still laughing at this?
there is nothing wrong with a prenup especially in your situation...BUT I'd be mad as hell too if any dude initiated one...
*in my key-lo-lo voice* "Oh so you think I'm tryna take your money"
But seriously it should be a mutual agreement, girlie should at least hear you out before giving a definite NO...
You'd better not tie that knot without her signing a prenup... I'm prelaw, I can help you with this shit, but don't be no fool.
what can you do? if a woman dont want to sign you only have 3 options
1)break up
2)keep on dating but dont get married
3)suck it up and get married without it
notice how none of these entail MAKING her sign it? because if a woman dont wanna sign nothing you can do
im wit kali, seem a lil fishy
she stayed at home before wit the baby daddy, then says some off the wall stuff about having to go back to the projects......????
y would she be worried about that if she takin care of business? has she ever had to support herself and the kids alone?
sounds like she'll probably get married andfigure she aint gotta work no more
if she's really in it for the long haul then yall shouldnt even have to worry about a pre-nup, but just in case...it is good to have
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